Saturday, December 27, 2008

Extended Family

The ladies of our extended family, the Conleys and Kolstads. Amanda, Meredith, Cynthia, Lori, Natalie, Joan, Laura, Kaela, Kristin, Peyton (Lisa is MIA.)
We have known them as long as I can remember and became our family in California when my parents moved here. Now Kristin has two girls (3 years and 7 months), and we have one as well.

Love you all!

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Monday, December 22, 2008

Tea Time with the Ladies






Natalie and Chloe's first tea at Lovejoy's in San Francisco.

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Two Months

Hi Natalie,

Wow, you are two months old. Today is also Daddy's birthday. You had your first overnight with Nana and Poppy so that Daddy and I could go on a date. You did great- and took a swim in the tub with Nana. Keep it up- they loved having you.

You are getting huge and hard to carry. Your neck strength and control is getting better every day. We put you in the frontpack facing out, but then we couldn't see you so we'll keep you facing in and close to us for awhile. Daddy can't wait to use his backpack to take you on adventures.

You are starting to get on a schedule of going to sleep at 9pm, waking between 3 and 4and then sleeping until 7. Not bad. Naps aren't quite scheduled yet though. The funniest thing that had happened is that you are very vocal regarding your pacifier and bottle. You have a way of shoving them both out with your tongue if you are not interested. Thanks for that. Otherwise, we would have no idea.

Keep the cuteness coming.

Love, Daddy and Mommy

Monday, December 15, 2008

Christmas at the Fairmont


Natalie and I went to see the Christmas Decorations at the Fairmont Hotel. They had a gingerbread house, and Santa's workshop. It was cold at the North Pole so she had on her fleece cap.

Friday, December 12, 2008

8 week checkup


Natalie is now 12 lbs, 4 oz and 24 inches. This puts her at 90% for weight and 95% for height. Dr. Laura said she is perfect!

This one is for the record books: she started smiling and giggling on Dec. 12th. What fun! We will try and get some good video to share.

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Meeting Santa












With hat.
Without hat.
Curses!!

Friday, December 5, 2008

Cookie Party 2008



Daniel and Natalie (7 weeks)

Bill and Chloe (13 weeks)

Monday, December 1, 2008

Friday, November 28, 2008

Sunday, November 23, 2008

The Harker Thanksgiving


We went to Jeff and Amanda's house for an early Thanksgiving. All the girls pictured went to Jr. High together and most have known each other since kindergarten. It was so great to see everyone and introduce the kids. And the food was fantastic. Thanks everyone!

From the left: Me, Natalie (5 weeks), Genia, Olivia (19 months), Julie, Liz, Tania, Maren, Theo (10 1/2 months), Amanda, Nikki

Friday, November 21, 2008

Mom's First Night Out

Last night, I went out with Elizabeth, Jer, Tika, and Erick to the Rock Bottom Beer Tapping of the Naughty Stout. The beer was great and the friends awesome! They even let me talk about the baby lots. Although, I did tell labor and delivery stories that made some re-think the baby thing. Sorry! Daniel stayed home sick. So Natalie went to Aunt Amanda's and was gushed over by all of her friends. Thanks Aunt Amanda! It was great to get out- sans baby. And I didn't even call once to check in. It is so nice to have family here to help out.

Monday, November 17, 2008

1 month old

Natalie, you are one month old today. Every new day has been my favorite day with you. I expect that will continue throughout your life. You are 10 1/2 lbs, and 22 inches. We had to move up to the regular size diapers and you have already outgrown clothes. You are an amazing baby. You have just started to learn how to grasp, although I don't think you know your hands are attached to you. Also, you seem to only complain if hungry or dirty. I was going to write how easy you have been, but I would like you to remember last night in which it took 2 hours to feed, clean and put you to sleep (Normal is 1/2 hour). You seemed ready for bed at 10pm and had been snoring on Dad for 1 hour. You ate at 9m, but at 10:15 you screamed for more food. Your screams are sad and pathetic, really. That was the first time I was unable to console you. You were frantic. Let's not repeat that tonight, ok. Dad needs his sleep. And naps don't happen as often as I would like, so really, I need my sleep as well. But... I also want to remember the feeling of rocking you to sleep in the middle of the night, just you and me, and our special time together.

Last week, Dad went back to work full time and we had our first solo adventure out of the house. You and I met Aunt Amanda for our favorite Jaliscos. We also had a great weekend out, your first wine tasting, breakfast with Chloe and company, and dinner with Tony and Kathy at another favorite Casa Lupe. They all loved you there. This week, we start our normal life. So far, I am having having a ton of fun with you. I can't wait for our next big adventure.

Saturday, November 15, 2008

Chloe + Natalie= BFF

Natalie meet Chloe, Chloe, Natalie. Chloe is 5 weeks older than Natalie. Adorable. We hope you both will be BFF. We had breakfast with Bill and Vivian and the girls got the chance to meet for the first time. I have known Bill for almost 15 years now. It will be so great to watch our girls (and the future Great Bear kids) grow up together.

Friday, October 31, 2008

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Monday, October 27, 2008

Granddad Comes to Visit

Granddad Harrington flew all the way out from Indiana to see you little one... expect lots of postcards from his travels. We are creating a postcard album to collect all of those memories.

Don't Blame Me- Daddy Dressed Me


Pink striped hat, brown bear shirt, green striped pants, blue socks.

I particularly liked the blue socks...they make the outfit.

Sorry Natalie- looks like the matching pants were in the wash.

Saturday, October 18, 2008

Aunt Sarah


Sarah and Robin came down from Berkeley to come visit you in the hospital!

Grandpa and Nana Hiltgen


They can't wait for you to come visit. There is a playhouse all ready to go.

Aunt Amanda


Aunt Amanda already planning your 21st birthday party...

Grandpa and Grandma Williams


Grandpa Jim just thinks you are such "a beauty!!"

The Birth Story: Part II

At 2pm, I was prepped for a c-section. At that point, the exhaustion was overwhelming. Both mentally and physically, my body was just done. I was so sad that I would be unable to deliver Natalie naturally, and just started to cry. At that point, I had been in labor for 27 hours, and was not prepared for a c-section. But Katy helped my through by finally telling my her labor stories. Yeah, unfortunately for Katy, that did actually make me feel better. Amanda and Daniel dressed in scrubs and we all entered the operating room. On Oct. 16th at 2:49pm, Natalie was born. She was held up over the drape and we all cried. At no point was she ever in distress. Natalie was the perfect baby the whole time. Daniel took her to be cleaned up and Amanda stayed with me.

Unfortunately, there was a complication and the placenta would not separate from the uterus. I started to loose a lot of blood. Amanda was kicked out of the operating room. Daniel started to get nervous because I was not coming out. I don't really remember too much, but I do remember to commotion. Ultimately, I was given drugs to stop the bleeding. Finally, I was sewn back up and taken to the recovery room.

On Friday, my blood count was 18. Normal is between 35 and 40. By Saturday, my blood count was down to 16, cardiac arrest levels, and I was given a blood transfusion of 2 units of blood. On Monday, my blood count was back to 20. We stayed in the hospital until Tuesday morning, 6 days total. Finally, we were able to bring little Natalie home.

The Birth Story: Part I

Natalie was due on Oct. 9th. Everyone (except our doctor) thought she would be at least 1 week early. We were ready and waiting. However, she had different ideas. So, on Wed Oct. 15, I was scheduled to be induced. That morning, I was unsure if my water was leaking and Dr. Tate told us to come on in and start the induction process. Daniel and I arrived at about 10am. Amanda was there 15 min after. Turns out, no, my water had not broken yet, but they kept us anyway and started the induction process. I was 3 cm dilated and 50% effaced. A cervical softener was inserted at 11:30am and would be left until midnight that night. I was scheduled to have pitocin to start contractions at 6am the next morning.

And then the waiting began. I did start to contract, but the contractions were light. Amanda brought lunch and then dinner and we all hung out for the day. Erik, Katy and Nicholas came to visit that night to help with the delivery. We sent them all home for the night and prepared to start pitocin the next morning. Again, Natalie had other ideas. My water broke at 11:15pm and by 11:30, the contractions started fast and furious. At midnight, I was shaking uncontrollably and the contractions had not stopped. The nurse agreed it was time for pain management. By 12:45, I had an epidural and was finally able to relax. I slept through the night. When the nurse checked at 6am, I was dilated to 6am and fully effaced. She started the pitocin to help with the labor. By 8 am, I was 7 cm dilated. Dr. Tate estimated that I would be delivering you by early afternoon. The nurse inserted an internal fetal monitor to track the intensity of the contractions more closely.

Amanda, Erik and Katy were all there to help with the labor. They even started to bet on how strong each contractions would be. Everyone was in anticipation waiting for the phone call of your arrival. However, when the nurse checked again at 1pm, I had not progressed at all. The contractions were not strong enough to continue the dilation. The decision was made that a c-section was necessary at that point. To be continued...

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Happy Birthday Natalie!

Daniel and I are thrilled to announce the arrival of Natalie Keenan Hiltgen. The whole family is doing great, just tired.

She was born at Good Samaritan Hospital on October 16, 2008 at 2:49pm and weighed 7lbs 12 oz.

Happy Birthday, sweet girl. We love you so much and are so excited to finally meet you.

Thank you to our friends and family. We cannot tell you how much your support and love through these past months has meant to us.

Pictures are being uploaded to www.flickr.com/photos/mhiltgen (Natalie Set) or click on the flickr badge to the left.

Friday, October 10, 2008

Still waiting....

Due Date was October 9th. You are officially one day overdue. We are all ready and waiting. Grandparents, aunts, and friends are eager to meet you and learn your name. They have been pretty patient all this time. Let's get this show on the road, huh?

Friday, September 26, 2008

It's Official- We Are Ready...

Tiny Tots made their first cloth diaper delivery today. 80 clean diapers just waiting. Seems like that is all we're doing right now. We can't wait to meet you little one!

Thursday, September 11, 2008

Oh my the Cuteness


Thank you Tika for the adorable sweater and booties. You are amazing. Can you see the little orange buttons? So cute!

Monday, August 25, 2008

The Baby Shower



Thank you to all of our friends and family who made this such a wonderful event celebrating the impending arrival of Natalie. We had such a great time! And a special thank you to Lisa for the amazing cake!!

The Nursury





Saturday, August 23, 2008

Friday, August 15, 2008

Welcome!

Welcome to Natalie's Blog. We will be posting stories and pictures all about raising Natalie. We hope you will join us for the ride.

Love, Daniel and Meredith